Henry Cloud

Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud, PhD is an American Christian self help author. Cloud co-authored Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life in 1992 which sold two million copies and evolved into a five-part series...
NationalityAmerican
ProfessionPsychologist
CountryUnited States of America
fell focus leadership listening love major teams three topic work
I fell in love with the topic of leadership. For three decades, that has been a major focus of my hands-on work: listening to and working with leaders, their teams and their organizations.
love marriage responsibility
Things don't change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
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He is the Truth, and He wants us to deal in truth with ourselves and our loved ones. We want the truth about you and your family to flood into and overrun the secrets that keep you in bondage to dysfunctional behavior and relationships
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The natural response to evaluation is to feel judged. We have to mature to a place where we respond to it with gratitude, and love feedback.
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Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.
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A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.
Some people's developmental path has not equipped them to stand up and let go of something.
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Part of executive functions is the ability to look to a goal deadline and assess where an organization is in meeting it.
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Every human being must have boundaries in order to have successful relationships or a successful performance in life.
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I think that God will provide opportunities and people and experiences, and everything we need to date and ultimately to find the one.
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In both our personal and professional lives, there are times when reality dictates that we must stand up and 'end' something. Either its time has passed, its season is over, or worse, continuing it would be destructive in some way.
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What happens with a lot of leaders is that their leadership style is like ADD; they are all over the place with different ideas. They could be driving one idea forward but then move on to something else too soon.
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The power of being in the physical presence of another person delivers real benefits.
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The best way to advance in a career is to get great results while working with people.