Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud, PhD is an American Christian self help author. Cloud co-authored Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life in 1992 which sold two million copies and evolved into a five-part series...
NationalityAmerican
ProfessionPsychologist
CountryUnited States of America
good people
As a psychologist, I can tell you that there are people who look very good in a group, but they're very different in a one-on-one situation.
attend current front people thousand
Leaders set a very clear path every day, in a thousand different ways, of what the people must attend to, inhibit, and keep it current in front of them.
mess
Don't use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and don't worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
integrity past reality
I'm not an expert in the sociological realities of all the pastors in the world, but I would say that there are some very, very positive things about the state of integrity in church leaders.
people leader growth
The business of church is ultimately people. You're trying to heal people, grow people, teach people, and mend people. And when leaders spend all of their time helping and growing other people, they ignore their own growth.
character way authority
There's no better way to become a disintegrated character than to be your own authority.
land dating people
People tend to look at dating sort of like a safari - like they're trying to land the trophy.
attitude expectations accountability
If you are building a culture where honest expectations are communicated and peer accountability is the norm, then the group will address poor performance and attitudes.
scary guilt calling
It’s scary to realize that the only thing holding our friends to us isn’t our performance, or our lovability, or their guilt, or their obligation. The only thing that will keep them calling, spending time with us, and putting up with us is love. And that’s the one thing we can’t control.
want ifs knows
We have our own thoughts, and if we want others to know them, we must tell them.
reality morality christianity
Christianity is not about morality. It's about reality.
practice dating people
Dating is a place to practice how to relate to other people.
love marriage responsibility
Things don't change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.
dating masquerade shows
Dating is about finding out who you are and who others are. If you show up in a masquerade outfit, neither is going to happen.