Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud
Henry Cloud, PhD is an American Christian self help author. Cloud co-authored Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life in 1992 which sold two million copies and evolved into a five-part series...
NationalityAmerican
ProfessionPsychologist
CountryUnited States of America
goal workplace persevere
Diligence is not easy, but we can't reach our goals without it.
wise light trying
When truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
horse thinking worry
Dont use all-or-nothing thinking. Take each day as its own day, and dont worry about it if you mess up one day. The most important thing you can do is just get back up on the horse.
tolerate
It is true that you get what you tolerate.
frustration firsts resentment
One of the first signs that you’re beginning to develop boundaries is a sense of resentment, frustration, or anger at the subtle and not-so-subtle violations in your life. Just as radar signals the approach of a foreign missile, your anger can alert you to boundary violations in your life.
pain giving consequence
Consequences give us the pain that motivates us to change.
order want might
You have to be able to face losing some things you might want in order to be free to do the right thing.
opposites
The opposite of bad is not good.The opposite of bad is love
attempting grows
You will not grow without attempting to do things you are unable to do.
essentials building boundaries
Boundaries are basically about providing structure, and structure is essential in building anything that thrives.
intimacy true-intimacy disagree
True intimacy is only build around the freedom to disagree.
taken people giving
Leadership is not taken, it is given. People give leadership to those that they trust. They allow people that they trust to have influence over their lives.
success mistake people
We all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
love perception age
Marriage is not slavery. It is based on a love relationship deeply rooted in freedom. Each partner is free from the other and therefore free to love the other. Where there is control, or perception of control, there is not love. Love only exists where there is freedom.