Will Martin
Will Martin
Will Martinis a New Zealand-born classical crossover singer...
night rude grace
We are all born rude. No infant has ever appeared yet with the grace to understand how inconsiderate it is to disturb others in the middle of the night.
humanity use world
What restricts the use of the word 'lady' among the courteous is that it is intended to set a woman apart from ordinary humanity, and in the working world that is not a help, as women have discovered in many bitter ways.
library needs university
If written directions alone would suffice, libraries wouldn't need to have the rest of the universities attached.
family world different-families
The etiquette of intimacy is very different from the etiquette of formality, but manners are not just something to show off to the outside world. If you offend the head waiter, you can always go to another restaurant. If you offend the person you live with, it's very cumbersome to switch to a different family.
women order discovery
It is one of Miss Manners's great discoveries that one needn't contradict others in order to set them straight.
people political principles
The pejorative term "political correctness" was adapted to express disapproval of the enlargement of etiquette to cover all people, in spite of this being a principle to which all Americans claim to subscribe
fun children people
The only way to enjoy the fun of catching people behaving disgustingly is to have children. One has to keep having them, however, because it is incorrect to correct grown people, even if you have grown them yourself.
century etiquette
Society cannot exist without etiquette ... It never has, and until our own century, everybody knew that.
consideration manners humans
Manners require showing consideration of all human beings, not just the ones to whom one is close.
differences no-excuses rudeness
Ideological differences are no excuse for rudeness.
boys female lapses
. . . women were brought up to have only one set of manners. A woman was either a lady or she wasn't, and we all know what the latter meant. Not even momentary lapses were allowed; there is no female equivalent of the boys-will-be-boys concept.
people ugly behavior
When a society abandons its ideals just because most people can't live up to them, behavior gets very ugly indeed.
people machines world
Screening telephone calls with a receptionist or the humbler answering machine is not a dishonorable thing to do. The warmest people in the world still need uninterrupted time to attend to their lives and should not be outwitted if they have made it obvious that they are not always available upon summons.
criticism firsts flaws
When virtues are pointed out first, flaws seem less insurmountable.