Brene Brown
Brene Brown
Brené Brownis an American scholar, author, and public speaker, who is currently a research professor at the University of Houston Graduate College of Social Work. Over the last twelve years she has been involved in research on a range of topics, including vulnerability, courage, worthiness, and shame. She is the author of two #1 New York Times Bestsellers: The Gifts of Imperfectionand Daring Greatly. She and her work have been featured on PBS, NPR, TED, and CNN...
NationalityAmerican
ProfessionAuthor
Date of Birth18 November 1965
CountryUnited States of America
I now see how owning our story and loving ourselves through that process is the bravest thing that we will ever do.
You are imperfect, you are wired for struggle, but you are worthy of love and belonging.
Vulnerability is the birthplace of innovation, creativity and change.
When we deny our stories, They define us. When we own our stories, we get to write the ending.
Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen.
Perfectionism is self destructive simply because there's no such thing as perfect. Perfection is an unattainable goal.
Our capacity for wholeheartednes s can never be greater than our willingness to be broken-hearted.
What makes you vulnerable makes you beautiful.
It’s no longer a question of can I do it. It’s a question of: Do I want to do it?
When we can let go of what other people think and own our story, we gain access to our worthiness—the feeling that we are enough just as we are and that we are worthy of love and belonging. When we spend a lifetime trying to distance ourselves from the parts of our lives that don’t fit with who we think we’re supposed to be, we stand outside of our story and hustle for our worthiness by constantly performing, perfecting, pleasing, and proving. Our sense of worthiness—that critically important piece that gives us access to love and belonging—lives inside of our story.
Love is not something we give or get; it is something that we nurture and grow, a connection that can only be cultivated between two people when it exists within each one of them- we can only love others as much as we love ourselves. Shame, blame, disrespect, betrayal, and the withholding of affection damage the roots from which love grows. Love can only survive these injuries if they are acknowledged, healed, and rare.
Daring greatly means the courage to be vulnerable. It means to show up and be seen. To ask for what you need. To talk about how you're feeling. To have the hard conversations.
Numb the dark and you numb the light.
The most powerful teaching moments are the ones where you screw up.