Bella DePaulo

Bella DePaulo
admit lies lies-and-lying people
People tell about two lies a day, or at least that is how many they will admit to.
expect fairly people stable view
We have a fairly stable view of ourselves. We expect other people to see that same view immediately.
There's always a trade-off between how you want to feel and what you want to know,
direct everyday generally people
People are generally not direct in everyday interactions.
considered felt marriage pay pulling sure
I never could have considered that if I were part of a couple. Even now I'm not sure it will pay off. But in a marriage, I would have felt that I was not pulling my weight.