John Gray

John Gray
relationship men self
A man's sense of self is defined through his ability to achieve results.
relationship self feelings
A woman's sense of self is defined through her feelings and the quality of her relationships.
dream self decision
Our lives are more like fragmentary dreams than the enactments of conscious selves. We control very little of what we most care about; many of our most fateful decisions are made unbeknownst to ourselves. Yet we insist that mankind can achieve what we cannot: conscious mastery of its existence. This is the creed of those who have given up an irrational belief in God for an irrational faith in mankind.
beat force lights players role shot tried
We tried to force their role players to beat us and their role players shot the lights out.
ball entire handled shot
We had the entire package. We shot the ball well. Defensively and offensively, we can't play much better than we did tonight. They rebounded the ball well. They handled the ball well.
bring financial four hiring meet members progress reports senate three
Right now we meet three or four times a year, and only for hiring and firing. Now we will meet once a month, and the members have to bring financial reports and progress reports to every meeting. We immediately go to Senate if someone is not doing their job.
based life men people relationships spending understanding
People say, 'Where did you come up with all this stuff?' I mean, who are you?' ... It's based on spending my life understanding relationships between men and women. It's ironic. If you understand relationships, you understand how life works.
crowd games harder last played quarter
Brookhaven played one of their better games all season. They played harder than w e did. They wanted it a little more in the last quarter and a half. And they had the crowd with them.
reality
Do we have any say? The reality is you're going to pay.
good job played super
We played real good. We did a super job rebounding. We did as good of a job defensively as we had all season.
deep goal proud seniors start state
That was their goal to start out the year. I was proud for our seniors to do that. Their other goal was to go real deep in the state tournament.
four people problem process realized
We realized during this process that a big problem right now is that there is no institutional memory. People are here four years and then they graduate.
against ball four good half played plus senior together
We played good defensively for about two and a half quarters. We have to put four of them together against good ball clubs. Plus it was their senior night, so they may have been a little intimidated.
achieved difference discovered manifest nine
I did that for nine years, achieved those goals, and then discovered to really manifest them in the world, make a difference in the world, I had to come out in the world and be like everyone else.