Jean de la Bruyere

Jean de la Bruyere
Jean de La Bruyèrewas a French philosopher and moralist...
NationalityFrench
ProfessionPhilosopher
CountryFrance
real men giving
It is motive alone that gives real value to the actions of men, and disinterestedness puts the cap to it.
gratitude men giving
Politeness does not always inspire goodness, equity, complaisance, and gratitude; it gives at least the appearance of these qualities, and makes man appear outwardly, as he should be within.
life blessing giving
Life is short and tedious, and is wholly spent in wishing; we trust to find rest and enjoyment at some future time, often at an age when our best blessings, youth and health, have already left us. When at last I that time has arrived, it surprises us in the midst of fresh desires; we have got no farther when we are attacked by a fever which kills us; if we had been cured, it would only have been to give us more time for other desires.
smile giving add
It is boorish to live ungraciously: the giving is the hardest part; what does it cost to add a smile?
giving shade merit
Modesty is to merit, what shade is to figures in a picture; it gives it strength and makes it stand out.
giving wells deals
Liberality consists less in giving a great deal than in gifts well-timed.
children father giving
There are some extraordinary fathers, who seem, during the whole course of their lives, to be giving their children reasons for being consoled at their death.
love giving warning
Love seizes us suddenly, without giving warning, and our disposition or our weakness favors the surprise; one look, one glance, from the fair fixes and determines us.
marriage husband giving
There are few wives so perfect as not to give their husbands at least once a day good reason to repent of ever having married, or at least of envying those who are unmarried.
giving generosity add
To give awkwardly is churlishness. The most difficult part is to give, then why not add a smile?
giving grace doe
It is a proof of boorishness to confer a favor with a bad grace; it is the act of giving that is hard and painful. How little does a smile cost?
lying giving generosity
Generosity lies less in giving much than in giving at the right moment.
giving pleasure exquisite
The most exquisite pleasure is giving pleasure to others.
character men giving
It's motive alone which gives character to the actions of men.