Francois de La Rochefoucauld

Francois de La Rochefoucauld
François VI, Duc de La Rochefoucauld, Prince de Marcillacla ʁɔʃfuˈko]; 15 September 1613 – 17 March 1680) was a noted French author of maxims and memoirs. It is said that his world-view was clear-eyed and urbane, and that he neither condemned human conduct nor sentimentally celebrated it. Born in Paris on the Rue des Petits Champs, at a time when the royal court was vacillating between aiding the nobility and threatening it, he was considered an exemplar of the accomplished 17th-century...
NationalityFrench
ProfessionWriter
Date of Birth15 September 1613
CountryFrance
Civility is a desire to receive civilities, and to be accounted well-bred.
Before we passionately desire a thing, we should examine the happiness of its possessor.
Politeness is a desire to be treated politely, and to be esteemed polite oneself.
A refusal of praise is a desire to be praised twice.
The contempt of riches in philosophers was only a hidden desire to avenge their merit upon the injustice of fortune, by despising the very goods of which fortune had deprived them; it was a secret to guard themselves against the degradation of poverty, it was a back way by which to arrive at that distinction which they could not gain by riches.
When we disclaim praise, it is only showing our desire to be praised a second time.
We should scarcely desire things ardently if we were perfectly acquainted with what we desire.
The desire of appearing clever often prevents our becoming so.
When we exaggerate our friends' tenderness towards us, it is often less from gratitude than from a desire to exhibit our own virtue.
Reconciliation with our enemies is simply a desire to better our condition, a weariness of war, or the fear of some unlucky thing from occurring.
We label judges with having the meanest motives, and yet we desire that our reputation and fame should depend upon the judgment of men, who are all, either from their jealousy or preoccupation or want of intelligence, opposed to us - and yet despite their bias, just for the sake of making these men decide in our favor, we peril in so many ways both our peace and our life.
We never desire strongly, what we desire rationally.
There are few things we should keenly desire if we really knew what we wanted.
Nothing prevents one from appearing natural as the desire to appear natural.