Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Elisabeth Kübler-Rosswas a Swiss-American psychiatrist, a pioneer in near-death studies and the author of the groundbreaking book On Death and Dying, where she first discussed her theory of the five stages of grief...
NationalityAmerican
ProfessionPsychologist
Date of Birth8 July 1926
CountryUnited States of America
life-lesson loss trying
Consciously or not, we are all on a quest for answers, trying to learn the lessons of life. We grapple with fear and guilt. We search for meaning, love, and power. We try to understand fear, loss, and time. We seek to discover who we are and how we can become truly happy.
grief loss want
If you truly want to grow as a person and learn, you should realize that the universe has enrolled you in the graduate program of life, called loss.
loss judging leaving
It is important to feel the anger without judging it, without attempting to find meaning in it. It may take many forms: anger at the health-care system, at life, at your loved one for leaving. Life is unfair. Death is unfair. Anger is a natural reaction to the unfairness of loss.
grief losing-a-loved-one loss
The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not "get over" the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. You will be whole again but you will never be the same. Nor should you be the same nor would you want to.
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For years, I have been stalked by a bad reputation. Actually, I have been pursued by people who have regarded me as the 'Death and Dying' Lady. They believe that having spent more than three decades in research into death and life after death qualifies me as an expert on the subject. I think they miss the point.
begin death diminishes fear grow impossible loved older powerful realize strongest wishes
When we grow older and begin to realize that our omnipotence is really not so omnipotent, that our strongest wishes are not powerful enough to make the impossible possible, the fear that we have contributed to the death of a loved one diminishes - and with it, the guilt.
believe
I only believe in what I see and hear with my own eyes and ears.
faced human normal shock
Any natural, normal human being, when faced with any kind of loss, will go from shock all the way through acceptance.
people
If people would get in touch with their spirits, they would be able to heal, emotionally and physically.
good ills people
We often assume that if we are good people we will not suffer the ills of the world.
death experience
Death is not painful. It is the most beautiful experience you will have.
truth
The truth does not need to be defended.
love
Love is really the only thing we can possess, keep with us, and take with us.
beyond body death shadow understood
I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that there is no death the way we understood it. The body dies, but not the soul.